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Frequently Asked Questions about Adoption

You probably have a lot of questions about adoption. You may be unsure of how it works, if you could handle it, if it is the right choice or what your rights are. Keep reading for some commonly asked questions we get asked about adoption.

Can I choose a family for my baby?

Yes! You will have the opportunity to review families’ portfolios with letters and pictures and in most cases even get to meet them before making your decision. There are additional options such as choosing a friend, an acquaintance, or someone who has been recommended to you.

How much contact can I have with my baby after birth and after adoption?

You may have as much contact with you baby at the hospital as you desire. When planning your child's adoption, you can choose an open adoption plan that allows ongoing visits with your child, or you can choose a less open adoption that keeps you informed about your child's progress through letters and pictures. Adoptive families respect your need to know that your child is loved and happy. If you prefer not to have any ongoing contact with your child and adoptive family, confidential adoption plans are also possible.

How soon after birth can my baby go to the parents I choose?

The timing of your child's placement depends on three factors: your preference, legal aspects (depending on the State), and the cooperation of the birth father.

How much will my child know about me?

That depends on what type of adoption plan you choose: open, semi-open, or confidential. No matter what plan you choose, you will want to provide your complete medical and social history to your child. You may choose to share your identity and where you live with the adoptive family. If you've made an open adoption plan, you can have ongoing, direct contact with your child and the adoptive family.

Does the birth father have any rights?

Both you and the birth father have rights. If you disagree about adoption or you no longer have a relationship with him, your adoption agency will work with the birthfather and/or the courts to determine if his rights can be terminated.

Will my child have information about his or her birth father?

Hopefully, yes. This depends on the birth father's cooperation with you and the staff of your adoption agency. Most birth fathers give their complete medical and social history, recognizing how important it is for their child. Often, only the information you provide will be available.

Can my child find me if he or she wants to search someday?

The laws in your state determine when and how your child may have access to information in the adoption file. Your caseworker will explain the current laws as they apply to your adoption plan.

How can I be sure my child will not be neglected or abused?

Adoptive families approved by _______ must meet standards that are shared with you. We make every attempt to complete a thorough assessment of potential adoptive families. Prior to finalizing the adoption, we will make home visits to ensure the child's well-being. In an open adoption, you will see for yourself how well your child is cared for and how much your child is loved.

Do I need an attorney or do I pay my agency to assist me with the adoption?

You do not need an attorney and there are no costs to you. We will handle all the legal details for you and the birth father.

If you have additional questions, please contact a counselor today.